Stressing about Stress

 We all have deadlines, we all run out of money, and we all have some sort of debt. The poor has debt and the rich just have a bigger debt sometimes. Stress can be financial, economical, social etc. It could be many things yet we learn to balance them one way or another. There is a rule in life. One day at a time and therefore it's also worth mentioning to complete or do one thing at a time, for as long as it takes, one hour or day or week. 

When we try to balance many things at once, we feel pressured to complete them all in one day let alone a week. Sometimes one event or "task" ends up taking a majority of the day even if it's a simple as groceries or taking your kid/yourself to the doctor. 

Everything takes up time, we all cope with time management. We give time to one thing and sacrifice time for another. Time is non-refundable. We invest time for some sort of return or self-pleasure. Whether it is for school, entertainment, family etc. Devoting time is essential and is practically what makes us human. Making time for our selfishness or for other people. It is our decision with how we manage time. 

Stress can make you slow down. It has a psychological factor that prevents you from staying happy, and focused. Could be multiple things or one major event or task. It's the pressure that gets to us. We boil from nervousness. And we sometimes end up not completing our tasks or events from being so tied up with stress. It's ok to fail, from failure comes success. It's ok to be so drowned out, let things flow. Regain control of the situations. Don't freeze. Untie yourself one thing at a time, and soon you'll notice you have less things to worry about.  

Money will come and go. Family will always be there. Being prepared always helps with deadlines. If you're like me and wait till the last second, that's when things blow up in your face. For not having a gameplan, some sort of system to guide yourself throughout the day or week. Ever since I started noting things in my calendar I've noticed I had less things to worry about, knowing what's coming ahead of time and not missing payments or events/tasks that had to get done. 

Don't be fooled by the calendar. There are only as many days in the year as you make use of. One man gets only a week's value out of a year while another man gets a full year's value out of a week.Charles Richards

Planning and taking things a day at a time is the best advice I could give anyone. Coming from someone who hates planning and wants to take things spontaneously. 

Stay safe out there, Hos out!

Blogger of the year: 2021

 Consistent. I am greatly consistent. Consistent at blogging at least once or twice a year. Fantastic. What you are about to read will take you through a magical journey, filled with dragons and blistering lava. Also I have no idea why you're still reading. I believe my reading level got permanently stuck at a 5th grade level. Oh but hey my writing,  I'll defend my writing skills, although I can't really improve my writing if I don't read. Well time to leave the Franklin turtle books behind. 

I am back baby. And hopefully with the right motivation and consistency I can do at least two more blogs this year. 

Let's recap shall we? We are more than halfway through this year and with just another blink...POOF! It will be gone yet again. Will this be the first and last blog I do? Maybe, probably, most likely, UNDENIABLY SO. But if I do decide to spice things up and do another one it will probably be because of a universal miracle. Yep a one in a gazillion stars that I'll do another blog and different topic.

I was just writing to say hi. Making sure you're all doing well. You know it's important to take care of oneself first and then others. Mental health is just as important as physical health. How's your year going? Is it what you expected and or wanted at the beginning of it? If not there's still time. Positivity in everything is important and especially when trying to go after a goal or dream. Staying motivated is part of the challenge. Consistent is part of the challenge. Hell, having goals or dreams could be part of the challenge. And it's ok to admit that you're just not sure where the river will take you IF you even wanted it to take you anywhere. Welcome to my boat. Welcome to my river. Let's ride the ride together. I'll be here. 

2021. You know, we should definitely have another christmas in July, why? cuz more gifts, more food, and more gatherings/parties. Ah but wait, hello COVID! I see you're slowly dying off and your deviant buddies.... What would the world look like if covid never happened at all? Was it possibly a necessary change? Socially, economically, politically or maybe possibly environmentally? People stopped polluting for a while, and that's super great. I don't know but if we have a winter santa, we should have a summer santa. 

That's all my time today. A short one if you will. Impactful but lightly disappointed I know. A quickie if you will. I leave you with this entertaining video at the bottom for getting through this far. Have a good weekend., or weekday depending on when you read this.....Have a good rest of your year!

p.s feel free to read other stuff. other years. love you.

p.s p.s wake me up in 8 days plz